## Metadata - Author: [[Derek sivers|Derek Sivers]] - Full Title:: I’m a Very Slow Thinker - Category:: #🗞️Articles - URL:: https://sive.rs/slow - Finished date:: [[2023-03-07]] ## Highlights > I’m a disappointing person to try to debate or attack. I just have nothing to say in the moment, except maybe, “Good point.” Then a few days later, after thinking about it a lot, I have a response ([View Highlight](https://read.readwise.io/read/01gtwf8f19765721rb4e7rrd63)) > People say that your first reaction is the most honest, but I disagree. **Your first reaction is usually outdated** ([View Highlight](https://read.readwise.io/read/01gtwf9q4eetrwqneek9gktzmp)) > And maybe, through example, you can show them that they can do the same ([View Highlight](https://read.readwise.io/read/01gtwf9je0mwxxrjnqhhyjh35c)) >  ([View Highlight](https://read.readwise.io/read/01gtwfa37shkhcb445y12c1cng))