## Metadata - Author: [[jules-purnell|Jules Purnell]] - Full Title:: How to Have Sex With Basically Anyone - Category:: #🗞️Articles - URL:: https://jmpurnell.substack.com/p/how-to-have-sex-with-basically-anyone?r=74c8x&utm_campaign=post&utm_medium=web&showWelcomeOnShare=false&triedRedirect=true - Read date:: [[2025-08-02]] ## Highlights > (To all the people who have fucked my exes after me, *you’re welcome!*) ([View Highlight](https://read.readwise.io/read/01k1ehrczzfzczqjj974bwrgcq)) > State What You Want, Then Ask For It. ([View Highlight](https://read.readwise.io/read/01k1ehzyqn1cwgdc2fzx79743p)) > **Ask Where Someone** ***Doesn’t*** **Like to Be Touched.** ([View Highlight](https://read.readwise.io/read/01k1ej175r7e1jehwevrsrmryz)) > Sex is collaborative ([View Highlight](https://read.readwise.io/read/01k1ej1r6ahw3vq8gfgfb8x4ca)) > We had a date and the next day he followed up to say he enjoyed the experience, asked me what I liked and didn’t, asked if I’d like to do it again sometime, and left it really open ended and assured me we’d stay friends if I didn’t want to. *Dear Reader,* it was the hottest fucking thing that had ever happened to me up to that point in my life! We’re still in contact to this day and in fact I went to his wedding last year. ([View Highlight](https://read.readwise.io/read/01k1ej43v7g0agdz0ezyn4n5je))