![rw-book-cover](https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!PPUF!,w_1200,h_675,c_fill,f_jpg,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep,g_auto/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F85f40b1f-9815-475e-bcad-5595322ef26d_1143x1600.jpeg) ## Metadata - Author: [[Aria Schrecker]] - Full Title:: How to Find a Husband - Category:: #🗞️Articles - URL:: https://www.ariababu.co.uk/p/how-to-find-a-husband-and-why-you - Read date:: [[2026-03-08]] ## Highlights > At some point, you’ll stop being hot and single and become an old maid. And you will go on to spend more of your life as an old maid than as a hot and single lady. You should resist the marshmallow and spend the currency of youth on securing happiness in your future. Also [married people are happier](https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/10.1177/0022022100031004001?). People who value hedonism should take this consistent and cross-cultural finding seriously. ([View Highlight](https://read.readwise.io/read/01kk6qjza0p4ec525jfcp8rhas)) > For some reason, the people who decide to get married are [better at staying together](https://www.cdc.gov/nchs/data/series/sr_23/sr23_028.pdf). ([View Highlight](https://read.readwise.io/read/01kk6qnyjscpdrvy37jqk19g2y))